Loving where I'm at right now!!

I love where I am in my life right now. It feels so good to just be myself and not be concerned with what others think about me. I spent so much time trying to fit in so that I would make everyone happy.Others may call that being fake but I call it being a people pleaser. Realizing now that "the people" were the only ones being pleased and I was miserable. It's amazing the reactions you get from people when you have your "AH HA" moment. Those same people that were around when I was weak and timid HATE the new and improved Tammie. They have no use for me now and no interest in having a friendship with me. That's sad...they would LOVE the new me! That's if they were happy in their own lives. I've come to realize that those same people have their own issues to deal with. The fact that they wanted me around for their own selfish reasons, lets me know that they have self-esteem issues of their own. How do you take pleasure in making yourself look good my demeaning someone with a low self esteem?


My journey to getting back to me has been amazing. I love not putting myself on the back burner anymore. I love being able to express myself without being afraid of hurting anyones feelings. Just recently I was able to tell a good friend NO, I did not want to be a part of her MLM. It felt so good to not feel guilty about it. WOW, the little things we take for granted .

I am happy being me, because that is what God wanted me to be just me! Being me I can change the world just being me. Life is so much better just being me. When you ask me who I am my reply will be. ME.

I was once afraid of people saying, "Who does she think she is?" Now I have the courage to stand and say, "This is who I am."--Tammie Braxton-Warfield!  Don't spend your life pretending that you like things you despise, or being with people you don't enjoy and pretending that you do! "To Thy Own Self Be True"!